WOMEN’S VIRGINITY AND HYMEN

T.I, a popular rapper of US fame, recently said he goes with his 18 year old daughter’s to her medical exam with her doctor, to check to see if her ‘hymen’ is still in tact. According to him he said and I quote .. ‘I’m willing to go above and beyond to protect mine’.

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His comments sparked a forest like burn all over social media causing his daughter to delete her social media page. The heat got so intense he went on Jada Smith’s Red Table Talk show to try and cover the burn with his wife on hand and to clear up any misconception.

So the Negro goes on a celebrity friendly show, whose host is living on the other side of freak and who raises her kids on the other side of extreme, and goes on to tell the listeners that he was joking, that he was not literally in the examination room, blah blah blah blah blah. Of course the interviewers were so shallow, friendly and so inept on the ramifications of his careless comments, a lot of important issues deriving from the topic slid through the discussion net. Cannot say I am too surprised. This is what you have when entitled ‘celebrities’ decide to do a Talk Show out of boredom with very little content and important learning lessons, filled with celebrity gossip and nothing but an insight of their boring and baseless lives.

T.I a word of advice…STFU…JUST STOP.

The horse has already left the barn yard galloping wildly and you cant stop it. T.I has already fed the gross psychopaths in this world to either go abuse and rape other young females or they are just waiting to ambush his daughter somewhere to be the first to break that coveted, cherished hymen.

What the fuck’s wrong with these ‘celebrities’ ? Does it pay that much to talk fuckery all the time? Is it the way to keep them current on the lips of nothing to do, Goo Goo Ga Ga, easily impressed, low self esteemed teenagers?

Oh the ills of capitalism. Everything becomes a commodity, including in this case T.I’s daughter.

The go to mea culpa these days it seems to be to declare I didn’t Mean what I said,

Well maybe its my age but if you said something, you actually meant to say it unless your brain does not have a close relationship with your mouth, in which case people like that are classified as idiots or even worse, insane.

T.I. what you said, whether its jest or otherwise, is what people in other cultures do as the norm and women in those cultures are nothing but commodities. They have to pass virginity test, In Afghanistan , Indonesia, Tanzania, Sweden yes Sweden, Egypt , Malawi , India, South Africa, Turkey, the masters of virginity tests where failure can lead to death, Jamaica and even the USA, these ‘test’ occur and as unscientific as they are, many lives are dependent on passing these two finger wiggle in the female genitalia. How ironic and hypocritical it is that female purity is sacrosanct whilst for men its a problem to be a virgin. I wonder if these ‘test’ happen in the animal world? I doubt it very much as certainly many dogs would fail that test. But then maybe that’s why men are compared to dogs. Dogs see another dog and just hump.

Look , the world as we know it is burdened with localized customs all under the cover of religious beliefs that make us as different as the language we speak. We don’t need to look far to see the true problem that plagues us as a society and that is our women are seen as commodities and treated differently in every culture and country. T.I was just doing what most men would like to believe of their daughters, that they are pure , virginal, oh so clean paragon of virtues that shows how ‘good’ they are in raising their daughters. Meanwhile the sons are let loose to find T.H.O.T to break their ‘virginity’ as part of their growing up to be a man.

What a tangled mess of double standards we weave. It is women who have traditionally and historically been given non-human roles, perceived as simply the daughters of Eve or as either Madonna or whore. Female emancipation is a far way off albeit impossible to equate to the men’s sexual revolution. I almost want to equate it to the Civil Rights Movement; it is something that is desired but far from desirable.

The sexual revolution is still being defined. Sexuality surrounds us like a dangerous aura. The same reverence that is given to the spirit is not given to the flesh. We have had a sexual revolution, but the sexual revolution only has made sex more pervasive. It has segregated and classify women, unhinge the men and created in many ways sexual dictatorship that breaks down, a system devised to preserve compulsive moralistic values in the individual in the interest of authoritarian marriage and family.

What a mirage we have and why even talk about it when calling a mirage a mirage is a good way to end a career, loose a job or even see you dead.

What are your thoughts? Please share and comment.

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SEXUAL MYTHS DEBUNKED…

sexmythsRan upon this nice article and thought I would share it on my blog. It deals with the age old questions about SEX. As everyone is different some of you may not agree with a lot of the points raised. I have an issue or two with a  few but overall it is a good read.

Enjoy and leave your feedback!

LifeHack Article:

Despite living in the age of technology where the information of our race is freely available on the internet, there are still a lot of misinterpretations about sex. In this article, we’ll spend the next few minutes debunking sex myths.
1. Size matters

No, folks, size does not matter. It has been proven time and time again that size really doesn’t matter. In fact, it’s been shown that some women actually wish their partners were shorter or thinner! According to Debby Herbenick, men and women enjoy sex more when they’re psychologically into each other regardless of size.
2. Aphrodisiacs don’t exist

There is a multimillion dollar industry around selling people foods, drinks, concoctions, potions, lotions, pills, etc that claim to increase your sex drive. That multimillion dollar industry is full of it. There is no such thing as an aphrodisiac and there is no way drinking that weird, expensive smoothie is going to make your sex drive better. It’s just not happening.
3. Old people do actually have lots of sex

If you’re worried about getting it on when you’re older, don’t be. This chart (pictured above) shows that old people have sex quite a bit. Studies have also shown that more than 50% of people between the ages of 57 and 75 have engaged in oral sex at least once in the past year. Don’t worry, your golden years will be actually golden.
4. Pulling out is about as effective as condoms

I didn’t even believe this one when I first read it. According to a well publicized study, condoms have a 98% success rate when used perfectly. That same study concluded that pulling out had a 96% success rate when used perfectly. Since we are a world of humans and humans make mistakes, let’s assume they don’t get used perfectly. Pulling out drops to 82% when used imperfectly. Condoms? 83%. That means all you’re really doing when you put on that condom is preventing STDs, which means you should still totally use them.
5. The first time women have sex, it doesn’t hurt because of the hymen

This is a widely misunderstood rumor even among women. In reality, the first time being painful has nothing to do with the breaking of the hymen because, in most cases, the hymen is already broken through things like athletics, menstruation, self-exploration, and other things. There are a lot of rumors but the underlying commonality is this: when women are going through the anxiety of their first time and men are doing it wrong (which we often are thanks to the porn industry), it interferes with the woman’s ability to create natural lubrication. The resulting friction is what is actually causing pain.
6. Men are not intimidated by vibrators

Nope, not even a little bit. In fact, in most cases, men hope that you’ll pull out your toy to join in the fun. Not necessarily for use on us but for use on you. Vibrators have the advantage of being thrust by hand which takes way less effort than thrusting with a pelvis and they also vibrate. It’s like a cheat code for the female orgasm. If we can’t get it done or we’re not in the mood that night, the vibrator can be a life saver. That means it’s totally cool to pull it out and play with it. Just don’t say things like, “it feels so much better than you do.” That’s just mean spirited and cruel.
7. The g-spot does, in fact, exist

Yes, the elusive erogenous zone long thought to be a made up fairy tale is actually real. Researchers have found that the g-spot is an area of denser tissue between the vaginal wall and the urethra. The spot varies in placement from person to person but it is definitely there. We’ll leave how to find it up to the imagination.
8. Men can actually have multiple orgasms

As if our risk for death via heart attack wasn’t already high enough, it has been proven that men can actually have multiple orgasms. The key is that men often associate ejaculation with climax and that’s wrong. Men can only ejaculate once but if you come really close and back off at the right moment, you can actually get to climax without actually ejaculating. Then it’s a matter of calming down for a minute or so, then going back at it.
9. Women do, in fact, watch porn

Don’t try to deny it ladies. Researchers have proven that erotic images and video can stimulate sexual desire in women just as effectively as men so it’s just as likely that women derive enjoyment from pornography as men do.
10. Vaginal intercourse is not always the best way to bring a female to orgasm

Human sexuality is a widely unexplored concept for most people. You could have three kids and been married for 20 years and still not found what really makes you tick in the bedroom. There are fetishes, wires that get crossed (one woman out there can make herself orgasm by brushing her teeth), and various other stimuli that can affect what makes a woman truly enjoy herself. it has been widely publicized that clitoral stimulation is the best answer for what a woman really wants but even then that’s not a sure thing. Sexuality is like a fingerprint or a snowflake. Everyone has slightly different tastes and you can’t use the same moves on all women and expect them to work.

Men and women have been trying to figure out the best ways to have sex for enjoyment for thousands of years now. Thankfully, the point is to have kids so as long as you can accomplish that you’re doing sex right on a biological level. However, with a little exploring, a little research, and a little bit of adventurous spirit, you can find what works for you and your partner and everyone can, in fact, go home a winner.

From the site: LifeHack.

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